tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post3854852221948274043..comments2023-07-31T20:50:33.021+08:00Comments on Borderline Lil: drawn to those ones that ain't afraidBorderline Lilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09988037918955358589noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-9013145216377205642010-01-01T09:17:51.835+08:002010-01-01T09:17:51.835+08:00I hope all is well with you Lil and you saw the ne...I hope all is well with you Lil and you saw the new year in safely and happy. My best to you. Happy New Year.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-1314792261593987012009-12-22T14:22:45.509+08:002009-12-22T14:22:45.509+08:00Hi Lil!
You write so beautifully! I love your cr...Hi Lil! <br /><br />You write so beautifully! I love your creative juices. I am so proud of you for searching within you to smother that which tries to destroy you. Your inner strength is beautiful and courageous. In my opinion, from this point, you can only come out on top. :)<br /><br />JenaJChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15334635689175224268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-45975452110953480192009-12-18T11:25:14.692+08:002009-12-18T11:25:14.692+08:00Hi Lil,
It's sounds like you are in a good pla...Hi Lil,<br />It's sounds like you are in a good place in your life right now, but you are also wondering when the next shoe will drop. I can't definalty identify with that. Sometimes life sucked for so long, we can't believe the good. I think we totally need help from ourselves.<br />Have a Merry Christmas,<br />AmandaMandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02388649891410858782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-80926585179041973432009-12-18T03:56:07.900+08:002009-12-18T03:56:07.900+08:00Yeah, I struggle a lot with change too.
I hope th...Yeah, I struggle a lot with change too.<br /><br />I hope that with time, the stable things in your life will stretch out longer, and you will find peace someday soon.Polar Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09042280087446534146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-20695214354323653282009-12-17T23:57:31.525+08:002009-12-17T23:57:31.525+08:00You're not alone in not liking change -- it ju...You're not alone in not liking change -- it just affects you in vastly different ways. But remember that lots are uncomfortable with change. I think the fact that you can write about things puts you so darn ahead of the game. It gives you an outlet, it puts you in touch with others, it makes you consider your life, your struggles -- and YOUR SUCCESSES! Don't forget those. My relative with bipolar disorder can't hold a job to save her soul -- she gets paranoid that people are talking about her, sabatoging her, etc. It's very sad. I'm just finishing a very hopeful book about the <a href="http://www.bipolarman.org/" rel="nofollow"> blessings of bipolar disorder,</a> so to speak, "Blessed with Bipolar," by Richard Jarzynka. He was about 3 weeks shy of completing his master's in pscyhology when he, in his own words, "cracked up" for the first time. He talks about the gifts he's been given, and says, simply, that a diagnosis is not a death sentence.Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12553309379795237911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-90753763544707484732009-12-16T02:18:39.419+08:002009-12-16T02:18:39.419+08:00I think it's great that you have that sheer bl...I think it's great that you have that sheer bloody mindedness and you're not afraid to use it! Don't give up; things always get better eventually. That's what I try to remind myself frequently. Just don't give up. You will make it through this job and this time and everything stressful in your life.Feminist Voice with Disabilitieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04971702402040080054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-3681921339829170532009-12-11T18:15:06.816+08:002009-12-11T18:15:06.816+08:00Seven months? Can that really be? It seems more li...Seven months? Can that really be? It seems more like last week you started your job. As I've said before I love your attitude. You will prevail--you simply have no choice because you're a winner Lil. "Sheer bloody-mindedness"-- love that!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-78127646405250468992009-12-11T08:21:11.489+08:002009-12-11T08:21:11.489+08:00@Manda - hey there, thanks for visiting! Keep at ...@Manda - hey there, thanks for visiting! Keep at the DBT, it's worked well for me and I'm sure you will get out there and find your independence x<br /><br />@Ari - I hope you're right, thanks for the support my friend!<br /><br />@JBR - You're right, as usual - just being on this journey is a huge change. Hugs back to you (((jbr)))<br /><br />@Dreamwriter - Thank you for the support, it's great to know I'm not in this alone :DBorderline Lilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09988037918955358589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-71767962128986683962009-12-10T05:20:42.692+08:002009-12-10T05:20:42.692+08:00I don't like change either, I am not good with...I don't like change either, I am not good with it..hang in there..You will come shining through!Bleeding Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02689816555725078811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-14431467866330440452009-12-09T19:32:06.814+08:002009-12-09T19:32:06.814+08:00I certainly DO NOT like change! Just being on my ...I certainly DO NOT like change! Just being on my journey is tremendous CHANGE! ((((Lil))))Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-48907957306361296672009-12-09T01:34:09.458+08:002009-12-09T01:34:09.458+08:00Just keep swimming, just keep swimming!
I know yo...Just keep swimming, just keep swimming!<br /><br />I know you can do this!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-31318798955757171322009-12-09T01:06:53.911+08:002009-12-09T01:06:53.911+08:00I too have a terrible time dealing with change! I...I too have a terrible time dealing with change! I have tried three times to move to a new city and get a new job, and have failed every time and ended up moving back home with my parents. It is my dream to strike out on my own in the world as an independent woman, but my BPD fights me. I am working on DBT too and I hope it will help me overcome my anxieties and be able to chase my dreams!Mandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04525389263549988340noreply@blogger.com