tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post2816798332172576587..comments2023-07-31T20:50:33.021+08:00Comments on Borderline Lil: shiny, shiny, bad times behind me...?Borderline Lilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09988037918955358589noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-39432705064772114912010-02-27T10:52:49.422+08:002010-02-27T10:52:49.422+08:00Hey Lil,
This was a interesting post. You talked ...Hey Lil,<br /><br />This was a interesting post. You talked about wise mind. I just wrote a post about emotional mind! I knew you had a link about DBT, but I didn't know if I should refer people to it. I think one day I will write a post about DBT because I just LOVE IT.<br /><br />Anyway, this is suppose to be about you. I am so happy for you. It's really hard to seperate yourself from the relationship. I do agree with your doctor that you still have to have space in your life for just Lil. But girl, I am saying that I know how difficult that is!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />AmandaMandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02388649891410858782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-60146323621569459792010-02-27T01:30:52.907+08:002010-02-27T01:30:52.907+08:00"It feels like I have to be suspicious of fee..."It feels like I have to be suspicious of feeling too good, but also suspicious of the Negative Nancy voice that tries to sabotage and second guess." <br />Wow, that is so familiar I could have written it myself.<br />Glad you're settling in and finding how things work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-22101689204732124732010-02-26T19:55:30.530+08:002010-02-26T19:55:30.530+08:00Glad you are in a good space Lil. I would not kno...Glad you are in a good space Lil. I would not know really how to deal with a serious relationship. Thanks for sharing. Blessings.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-30737149925184201392010-02-25T14:44:41.050+08:002010-02-25T14:44:41.050+08:00ha, what a pair we are! I actually really needed t...ha, what a pair we are! I actually really needed to read this right now, as I'm having a massive wobble about whether I can do this whole relationship thing. I think you made a good point about it being "easier" in some ways to remain single. Getting together with someone after so long is a scary challenge! Here's to the avoidance of sabotage .... I'm really glad that you're happy xxRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17682289336899810638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641320093790091631.post-7806466355619304162010-02-24T11:35:39.702+08:002010-02-24T11:35:39.702+08:00I despise being single, I'll freely admit it. ...I despise being single, I'll freely admit it. Unfortunately to the point of staying with total douches, but live and learn which you have done so I'm thrilled for you and you're feeling content and comfortable.Elizabeth A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06741728597715923701noreply@blogger.com